My Mother's Recipe: Sweet & Sour Pork & A Very Special Wedding

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Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

My mother's sweet and sour pork uses tomato and cucumbers which is something that she didn't always use. They'd only pop up separately or in conjunction very rarely (my family aren't huge tomato fans I am the exception) and cucumbers would be more popular. Before you close down this window at the idea of cooked cucumber in sweet and sour pork, please allow me to make my case for it. I too was unsure about it, my memory being so distant of it, but once I tried it in this, it fit perfectly. They're not cooked for very long so they take on the texture of say a cucumber pickle. Or feel free to leave them out completely but I personally think that would be missing out on a delightful part of the dish.

She marinated the pork - and she chooses pork neck because it is just the right amount of lean and fat, in a tenderising mix and then once this is done, it's deep fried and then the sauce is made. It is very easy to do and is comfortingly delicious.

Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

When I made this sweet and sour pork it was a pretty cross cultural day with two cultures that have a lot in common. I had spent the morning having a fitting for a sari. I don't know if you remember this blog post from a while back but once upon a time, a young man called Karnik asked for a blog post of mine as he was proposing to his girlfriend. He told me that she really enjoyed reading the blog and he was putting together a custom made newspaper for her with all of her favourite things. I was only too delighted to help and sent him through a blog post that wasn't going to go live-that way he would have an exclusive.

Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

I wished him the best and sent them both good wishes and it was a few months later that I received an email from a girl called Mimansa. I didn't recognise the name because Karnik hadn't told me his girlfriend's name but with the lovely email she sent a photo of the newspaper. She accepted his proposal and thanked me sweetly for my article. A short time later a copy of the newspaper arrived in my post box along with a hand written note and then a beautiful invitation to their wedding!

Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

It took me all of two seconds to say yes and tell Mr NQN that we were going to a Hindu wedding! The invitation indicated that the dress code was formal (Western, Indian or any other culture). But I didn't have a sari. Mr NQN and I were walking off some pizza on the South end of King Street in Newtown a month or so before the wedding. We almost reached the end of King Street when we came across an Indian fashion store.

Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

We walked in and there were bejewelled and gold threaded saris everywhere for hire and for sale. And so one day before the wedding I found myself getting fitted for a sari. The store owner Sam liked some colours on me but I really wanted to try the one that first caught my eye, a red and blue one. I loved the way that it fell on the mannequin. And it would be mine for the day. Sam helped me make sure that I could tie it easily myself the next day and a woman stopped me in the street on the way to the wedding to compliment me on my draping skills! All Sam's skills of course :)

Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

The next morning, at Old Government House in Parramatta, we could see the wedding celebrations had begun already. There were brightly coloured, glittering saris with embroidered sherwani jackets and churidar pants for men. Poor Mr NQN regretted his Western suit choice immediately. There was clapping and dancing around the groom Karnik and people moved towards the stage area. Some took seats in front of the stage while others shaded themselves under trees availing themselves of refreshments. What surprised us was the social aspect of the wedding. At Western weddings, people sit down on particular sides (bride or groom side) whereas it's more freeform here. We had asked Mr NQN's colleague Sachin about etiquette as we wanted to be careful to not offend.

Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

His tips were to avoid wearing black and white and to not over think things. It's relaxing and not a stuffy ceremony at all. People get up and wander off to get refreshments and chat on the side as the ceremony takes place. Kids aren't obliged to sit still and be quiet, should they start to fidget someone carries them off to play in the grass. Mimansa and Karnik exchange vows as well as take seven circles around the fire pit to represent the Saptapadior the Sath Phere which are the seven promises or seven steps that each couple makes to each other.

Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

I have no idea why I look so serious here, I was smiling the entire time. I blame resting b^&h face...*

After just over an hour the ceremony is completed and it's time for a group photo-a surprisingly easy feat given the size of the wedding. It was then off to lunch at the Parramatta Town Hall, a pink Victoria Free Classical style building a few minutes walk away.

Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

The buffet of vegetarian Indian food is by Maya de Dhaba in Surry Hills and the food is absolutely delicious. There's palak paneer, dahl and a chickpea curry with rice, yogurt, wholewheat fried bread. The desserts are also fantastic with gulab jamen, ras malai and burfi. Often at weddings, the food suffers from mass preparation but here it is perfect. We grab a chair and toast with our chais to Mimansa and Karnik and for letting us be a part of their very special day.

So tell me Dear Reader, have you ever attended a Hindu wedding? Have you ever worn a sari? Do you often order sweet and sour pork?

Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

My Mother's Sweet and Sour Pork

An Original Recipe by Lorraine Elliott

Preparation time: 20 minutes plus 15 minutes tenderising time

Cooking time: 15 minutes

  • 500g/1.1lbs. pork neck, cut into bite sized pieces
  • 1 large onion, peeled and sliced
  • 1-2 Lebanese cucumber, sliced
  • 2 tomatoes, cut into crescents
  • 2 stalks spring onion, cut into 1 inch pieces
  • 1 red chilli, sliced
  • Oil for deep frying

Tenderiser

  • 2 tablespoons water
  • 2 egg yolks
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 1 teaspoon sugar
  • 3-5 tablespoons cornflour/fine cornstarch

Gravy

  • 200ml/7 fl ozs. water or stock
  • 6 tablespoons sugar
  • 6 tablespoons tomato sauce
  • 1 tablespoon white vinegar
  • 1 tablespoon chilli sauce
  • 2 tablespoons Lea and Perrins sauce
  • 1.5 teaspoons salt
  • 1 teaspoon sesame oil
  • 1 tablespoon cornflour (mixed with 2 tablespoons cold water just before adding)

Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

Step 1 - Mix all of the tenderiser ingredients together except for the cornflour. Mix with the pork pieces and allow to tenderise for 15 minutes.

Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

Step 2 - While it is tenderising, mix all of the gravy ingredients except for the cornflour water mixture. Have all of the ingredients cut and ready to add as it is quite quick once you get started. Add the tenderiser cornflour to the pork and coat each piece with the cornflour.

Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

Step 3 - Heat enough oil to deep fry in a wok or pan and when it is ready deep fry the pork pieces. Drain on a plate lined with paper towels. Do not overcook these-they won't get very dark as this is cornflour. Drain the hot oil (be very careful, it's very hot!).

Sweet Sour Pork Recipe

Add a couple of tablespoons of oil back to the wok or pan and add the onion and fry until translucent. Add the gravy sauce ingredients and bring to a simmer. Add in the cornflour and water mixture to thicken the sauce. Add the cucumber, tomato, spring onion and red chilli. Add the pork back into the pan and coat the pieces with the sauce. Serve immediately.